Aleksandra Domanska ended her relationship with the father of her child one month after the birth. Despite this, they lived together for some time

Aleksandra Domanska, who became a mother for the first time in October 2021, is not a celebrity who often shares pictures of her baby on social media. Nevertheless, her new role as a mother has attracted the attention of the press, which has been writing about her extensively for several months. In particular, her choice of a name for her son has generated a lot of excitement.

Challenges in single parenthood according to Aleksandra Domanska

Domanska shared her decision to become a mother during an episode of the podcast hosted by Justyna Naglowska. As she admitted, this decision was spontaneous and she was motivated by a strong feeling that suddenly overwhelmed her. She also mentioned an awkward situation between her and her partner just before the birth of their son. Eight months pregnant, after an argument, she left their shared flat in the countryside and moved to live with friends in Kashubia. By her own admission, this decision was dictated by emotions and hormones, rather than a real necessity. Domanska also raised the issue of childbirth, which in her case took place at home. She emphasised that she was not afraid of a home birth, as she had studied the subject thoroughly beforehand and had spoken to many women who had opted for this form of delivery. She also expressed her concerns about giving birth in a hospital, particularly her fear that she might not have the strength to resist some of the medical procedures. Further, Domanska admitted that she did not feel immediate love for her son after his birth. She revealed that both she and the child’s father initially felt no emotion towards the newborn. She added that they were both overwhelmed by the new situation and found it difficult to bond with their child.

Aleksandra Domanska’s emotional life

Domanska explained that her partner is Finnish, so she often uses English phrases in conversations. She talked about the problems she and her partner had to face in the first days after the birth of the child. At one point Domanska’s partner decided to take a month’s break from being a parent, which was very difficult for her. She admitted that she found it difficult to ask for help at first, but now she understands her partner’s decision and is grateful that he took care of his own needs. Domanska also talked about her current relationship with the father of her child. Although they are no longer together, they are still living together and learning to be parents. Domanska also revealed when she felt love for her son. As she admitted, the feeling came one day when she saw her son looking at her with a smile. She then felt a wave of happiness and realised that she was a mother. From that moment on, she began to nurture her affection for her son, creating little rituals such as kissing him on his little lips while changing him. In May 2023, during an interview with a journalist, Domanska admitted that she had started a new relationship since her separation from the father of her child, but unfortunately it did not last long. She also touched on the end of her previous relationship.

This break-up, it’s a completely different category. Because it was a postpartum break-up, it was an unusual time for me. I also recently had a boyfriend and we also broke up. And it was so much more difficult because he told me directly: “Ola, I’m scared of you” and it hurt,” she confessed.